Family

Family is the basic fabric of society.It is very important for us to have a happiness family. But there is some disagreement between family and career.One of my foreign teacher Kate said that the most difference of Chinese and American is they think in different way.She took the family and career for example,she think Chinese care about career more than family,while American are the way around.
In a family,love is vital.But through the discussion we held in intensive reading class, we realize the responsibility is more important for a family.In some measure it is the responsibility make the family go further and further. Love is a kind of feeling ,it means care.Responsibility is a kind of awareness,it means action.Learn to love ,first we must be responsible for ourselves.Then for your lover and also nuclear and extensive family members.You can not free without any limitation.Only within limitation can you gain freedom that will last long.Just because the people you loved or the one love you whatever happen in next minute,you will always feel confident and sunny.The responsibility can hold you to the end of your life ,wherever you are.
The generation gap in a family is obvious.The old think the young are foolish ,naive and obedient. The young think the old are conservative and bossy. This is inevitable even between person and person. But we can narrow the gap through the communication. To add dialogue with family member,to cherish what we already have owed and to be open to new things in a proper degree are good ways to solve this kind of conflicts.
Family is important to society ,so care about the society from your family .The social problems caused by little family affairs.
What is your opinion on family ,do you have some special ideas?SAY TO ME please.