2007年5月28日星期一

Why travelling

ST.Augustine once have said :"The world is a book,and those who do not travel read only one page."Not only under the influence of his,but I like traveling at heart.
I have a dream to go around the world so that I can encounter with various people and things.
Then I can comprehend the world better and deeper;I can put my book knowledge into the test;I can combine the spiritual resources with the reality;I can feel many things in the world.
Through book I have already had a bird's-eye view of the world;I have already learn the mutuality of the ethnic;I have already visualized what the world might look like thousands of times.But that is nothing without traveling.It is traveling that arose our enthusiasm to explore the world persistently.
By preference,I will choose some places to travel in the days to come.Such as tourist attractions,resort of nature and history,different terrain and weather,waterfalls,the ocean,the beach...feeling their colourful or harsh life,meanwhile adding my experiences , expanding my eyesight,modifying my dull life and making my refined tastes.
T here is something should notice during traveling:1.We should not by-pass the similarities,only to tell the distinguish.It turns out that one's ability to get along with other peoples depend on one's comprehension of the uniqueness of theirs way of life as one's comprehension of the things we have in common. 2.Be sure you are secure,not precarious.
3.Be prepared for your traveling and take less package. 4.you can wear valuable dressings in case you are out of money.
Travel with all your heart,and you will get fabulous rewards from that.

2007年5月17日星期四

White lies

Have you ever told lies?I guess most people have.
Why you told lies?Is it for good willing or just for yourself?
If you have an alternative to tell the truth and to tell white lies,which one will you choose?
I am a person who is a strong believer of truth from childhood till now.I always choose to tell the truth,no matter what others suggest me .I think the reality is the most important matter.EVERYONE has the right to know the real world clearly.
But rencently my thought has a little chang,as the reality are usually crule,too crule for us to accept.Sometimes the white lies can show our feelings to others.Bcause the reality are object,but our feelings are subject.We live together in the society which is a world supported by every emotional human beings.So we have our own feelings toward people and things.We have our bless to our favoriate fellows.
Tellwite lies is a wisdom which shoes people's peculiar ability.
As in the film directed by Xu Jinglei named "My father and I".there is a section which describes their departure.When "I" was at the station in Beijing,I missed father and made a phone to him.I asked if father got up,and father said he was getting up .I said I was already on the train.In fact both of them told lies .The father was on the way to see her off,she was at the telephone booth by the station.She wanted her father to see her off at heart.she looked around to look for the figure of her father but failed,as her father was hiding somewhere to see her till she disappeared into distance.I was deeply moved by this kind of affection between them which happened or is happening all over the world.
From now on ,I decided to learn to tell white lies.It is precious.It is a wisdom.It is considerable.Just like a drop of tear.

2007年5月15日星期二

A life long journey

Life is a long journey.If you are careful enough,you can see the wonder scenery.
During the May Day holiday I spent a lot of time with my friends and family.I went out almost of the time.I went to the center of the town ,going round the street.I went to PE square,skating.I went to Baiquan Lake,rowing and playing.Tired though it is,I felt extremely light in heart and mental.It's a different holiday I haven't EVER taken before. It is a mermorable time and I won't forget.
So after coming to school,I am very active in studying and living.I have a good condition in many aspects.
We need time to relax,time to dream,time to remember,and time to reach the infinite,time to be.We should learn to make best use of time in our life.As life is a long journey,we needn't worry to do everything at a time.Slow down,and life will become more courlorful in our eyes.Do you believe it?let's have a try.

2007年5月2日星期三

Family

Family is the basic fabric of society.It is very important for us to have a happiness family. But there is some disagreement between family and career.One of my foreign teacher Kate said that the most difference of Chinese and American is they think in different way.She took the family and career for example,she think Chinese care about career more than family,while American are the way around.
In a family,love is vital.But through the discussion we held in intensive reading class, we realize the responsibility is more important for a family.In some measure it is the responsibility make the family go further and further. Love is a kind of feeling ,it means care.Responsibility is a kind of awareness,it means action.Learn to love ,first we must be responsible for ourselves.Then for your lover and also nuclear and extensive family members.You can not free without any limitation.Only within limitation can you gain freedom that will last long.Just because the people you loved or the one love you whatever happen in next minute,you will always feel confident and sunny.The responsibility can hold you to the end of your life ,wherever you are.
The generation gap in a family is obvious.The old think the young are foolish ,naive and obedient. The young think the old are conservative and bossy. This is inevitable even between person and person. But we can narrow the gap through the communication. To add dialogue with family member,to cherish what we already have owed and to be open to new things in a proper degree are good ways to solve this kind of conflicts.
Family is important to society ,so care about the society from your family .The social problems caused by little family affairs.
What is your opinion on family ,do you have some special ideas?SAY TO ME please.